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Mar. 10th, 2009

I Just Hate It!!!

Warning!! Read at Your Own Risk!! This Entry Conatins Mainly of My Ranting on What Happened on That Day...

 

 

 

 

 

This experience happened last Thursday (March 5, 2009). Dun sa MRT noong naka upo na ako may isang babae na lumapit sa akin at amf ANG KAPAL NG MUKHA nya na sabihin na umalis ako sa inuupuan ko sa sulok na yun dahil meron lang naman syang kasamang bata..

Ang luwang luwang ng tren 3 PM pa lang naman... Ang masama pa naka shades pa sya at humihingi na nga sya ng isang pabor sa akin d pa nya ipakita ang kanyang buong pagmumuka na iyon..

At ako naman na ayaw makipag talo sa isang babaeng ito ay lumayas sa sulok na iyon pero bago ako umalis sa upuan ay binigyan ko yung babaeng iyun ng isang inis na expression bakit? ang kapal kasi ng muka nya e nauna ba naman ako dun at paalisin. Hay kaya nga naiinis ako minsan sa mga tao sa loob ng mrt... Yan lang nakakainis na karanasan ko ng araw na iyon

I Just Hate It!!!

Warning!! Read at Your Own Risk!! This Entry Conatins Mainly of My Ranting on What Happened on That Day...

 

 

 

 

 

This experience happened last Thursday (March 5, 2009). Dun sa MRT noong naka upo na ako may isang babae na lumapit sa akin at amf ANG KAPAL NG MUKHA nya na sabihin na umalis ako sa inuupuan ko sa sulok na yun dahil meron lang naman syang kasamang bata..

Ang luwang luwang ng tren 3 PM pa lang naman... Ang masama pa naka shades pa sya at humihingi na nga sya ng isang pabor sa akin d pa nya ipakita ang kanyang buong pagmumuka na iyon..

At ako naman na ayaw makipag talo sa isang babaeng ito ay lumayas sa sulok na iyon pero bago ako umalis sa upuan ay binigyan ko yung babaeng iyun ng isang inis na expression bakit? ang kapal kasi ng muka nya e nauna ba naman ako dun at paalisin. Hay kaya nga naiinis ako minsan sa mga tao sa loob ng mrt... Yan lang nakakainis na karanasan ko ng araw na iyon

Feb. 28th, 2009

Through a Rapist's Eyes

Good information!

Through a Rapist's Eyes
(No Joke)
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A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.  They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed .  They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair .  Women with short hair are not common targets.

2) The second thing men look for is clothing.  They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly.  Many of them carry scissors around specifically to cut clothing.

3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their purse, or doing other activities while walking because they are off-guard and can be easily overpowered.

4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early morning, between 5: 00a.m. and 8:30a.m.

5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store parking lots. The number two: office parking lots/garages.  Number three: public restrooms.

6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to another location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.

7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.

8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands
.

Keys are NOT
a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon.  So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.

10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it?, or make general small talk: 'I can't believe it is so cold out here,' 'We're in for a bad winter.'  
Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.

11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell STOP! or STAY BACK!  Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back.  Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes), yell I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and
holding it out will be a deterrent.

13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can by outsmarting them.  If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the Arm(between the elbow and armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD.  One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches.  Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it - it hurts.

14)
After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN.  I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful.  You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble.  Start causing trouble and he's out of there.

15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible.  The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

16) Of course the things we always hear still apply.  Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and
if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts!!!

You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

1. Tip from
Tae Kwon Do : The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans :  If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse,
DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you....chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse.  RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy.  The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc.)  
DON'T DO THIS!  The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go.  AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car.  Your Air Bag will save you.  If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it.  As soon as the car crashes bail out and run.  It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.

5 A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot or parking garage:

A.) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.

B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door.  Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.

IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6.
ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control,
ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times. And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably in a zigzag pattern!

8.
As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP! It may get you raped or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well-educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked 'for help' into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her
'Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.'

The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over. The policeman said, 'We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.'  He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby.  He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their doors when they're home alone at night.

Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby --- This should be taken seriously because the Crying Baby theory was mentioned on America's Most Wanted this past Saturday when they profiled the serial killer in Louisiana

Sep. 19th, 2008

How Ignorant can these people get?

okay, so I just woke up inside the car and when I went out of it I saw that the plants that was in front of our house was cut by those stupid people with no knowledge about the importance of plants.

Those plants were planted there by my aunt, who is now in australia. I like the flowers of those when they around July to August; but now I won't be able to see them and that makes me sad and also angry at those people who did it.

I don't like what they did, the ones that belong to the home owners association in  SPS 7 division in my country.... The president is not worth he would just like to get rid of those plants because the road cannot be seen, how stupid! I think it is only an excuse just to get rid  of those plants.. T_T

Those were there since I was a little kid and I like them very much....

well that's it fo my rantings...
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Writer's Block: Speak Like a Pirate Day

Ahoy me hearties, the call of the sea be strong! Seein' as it's Speak Like a Pirate Day, let's have all ye landlubbers, scallywags and sprogs tell us in a buccaneer's tongue who yer first mate be, and what sort of booty yer willin' to walk the plank for. Savvy?
what?

Jul. 7th, 2008

Unlucky..

I am so unlucky today. Why you asked? It is because I have midterms from the past week up to this week. The worst is that I have to take 2 consecutive exams with only 10 mins as the gap. The first one is that it is a major subject it is a programming one and here is the one that made me unlucky. The test was 50 items and I failed this exam... T_T I only got 66% and that is a failure, the passing is 70%.

The next was literature it was fairly hard because even though there were choices one number has two answers each. oh well I just wish that I would not have a failing mark this midterms. If so, then I would really hate it...

Jul. 2nd, 2008

Argument? 喧嘩 PHILIEN

Whenever my mother would scold me she would always use a voice that would sound ugly to my ears. The last time she scolded me was last Sunday, June 29, 2008. Recently she would just scold me by telling me what I had done wrong; but sometimes she would also hurt me like pinch me somewhere in my body or spank me somewhere.

 

Last Sunday, she got mad at me because I raised my voice when she called me; well duh, she was outside the house and I needed to raise my voice a little for her to hear me, if not she would not have heard. She just always misunderstood me and would not listen to my reasons I was already in a bad mood because I was woken up. When she scolded me, she asked me if that was what I learned when I entered College. Heck no! I did not learn that in college shouting to my parents, it was just a misunderstanding.

 

I was very disappointed with my mother that day; she forced me to take a course I did not like and she would ask me that kind of question? Here I am fulfilling her wishes because I did not want to disappoint them; I was a very obedient child to them compared to my brother that is, who do not even follow simple orders around the house. So, if you already knew that you have a misunderstanding then try and solve it as soon as possible; for it not to get any worse.

Writer's Block: Caring

Who do you care about most in your life?
My family because without them I would not be the person who I am now and most of the time, I enjoy spending time with my relatives.

My friends without them I don't know what I would do, maybe I would be a Loner.

My cats they also keep me company and I have something to do when I am bored if they are around...

Jul. 1st, 2008

いたい です。。。。 -_- ~ ピリエン ~ .PHILIEN.

I sometimes wonder why people have no discipline when it comes to riding a public transportation; they would usually or always push one another just to get inside the transportation. Why is that? Is it because they are in a hurry or just because they are desperate to get on it?

 

This experience happened to me yesterday morning when I was on my way to school. I need to ride a train to get to school; my class starts at 7 in the morning I usually arrive at the train station at 6:30 AM but it was a Monday yesterday and every Mondays there are many people at that time. When I arrived at the train station the platform was already full of people, I have to skip a train because there were many indivuals. When next train arrived the persons at the back kept pushing that I was almost squished in the crowd of people and I hated it whenever they would be so desperate to get on the train and the one on the back would push the ones on the front just to get on it.

 

This is one of the reasons why I hate commuting, but I have no choice because my father won’t drive me to school because it is too far from my house, and because of rising oil prices. The people who are riding public utility vehicles should have some discipline in riding those, especially if they are riding trains, who knows if the one that is pushing is causing pain to the other people.

 

Writer's Block: Home is...

Where do you call home?
Home is when I am happy at certain place with my friends then it is a home for me; when I am happy with my family then it is also home for me.

Home is where people care for me is and they would stand by my side in good times and in bad times. They are always there for me ^_^

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